Iya Personal experience
Because of one hadist or quote, and I just interpreted it by myself, who is knowing nothing. But know-it-all minded at the time. And took action with stupidity. I lost a lot of things, friends, joys, chances and maybe many more. I learn it from the hard way.
BUT I DON'T REGRET IT. BY ALLAH'S WILL, IT HAPPENED.
If that thing didn't happen, maybe I would not know 'thing' that I finally know it, because I left previous thing.
And from that next step on life too, I knew my mistake on the past. Nothing is useless. We will know one day that is precious, on time. (someone said, ya, it's true)
Good lesson from this story :
it's about women better make prayer at home. Is it right?
Look at this case :
Long time ago, there was a woman asked Prophet SAW, "Ya Rosul Allah, my husband always poke me while I am praying."
And HE asked her, "why?"
"My husband said, I stole his surah"
Her husband prayed in a masjid, memorize Qur'an from Rosul SAW. And when at home, he led his wife to pray, and reciting surah that he has memorized it, before.
And, another time, his wife prayed by herself, also reciting surah that she memorized from his husband.
THE funny one is this man was so obsessed with his wife. When his wife is prayinh, he poked her. "Hei, you stole my surah, you stole my surah."
This woman couldn't concentrate while she was praying. So she told Rosul SAW. She also said, "should I go to masjid to pray?"
and the advice from Rosul SAW is, "No, don't go to masjid. But, you can pray in the innermost part of your house."
It's because Rosul SAW is considering about his husband, who is so obsessed with his wife. And if his wife go to masjid to pray, then it will ruin their family, their relationship. So, better for her to pray in the innermost part of her house. Case close.
Another case :
Some women asked Rosul SAW, "Ya Rosul Allah, when we on the way to go to masjid, we walk through swish. And it makes our clothes dirty."
Did he tell him to just pray at home? This is what he said :
"Keep go to masjid, it's OK, because rest of the way will clean it."
So, for women, they can pray in a masjid. It all just depends on each person situation.
THE point here is, sometimes we just interpret some hadist or other thing, without knowing how that hadist came down. Not knowing the story behind that hadist.
It just teaches us to be really careful before judging other.